Monday, 3 December 2012

Rep. Tom Cole: Republicans Don't Need to Present a Plan Yet

Republicans don't need to counter President Obama's proposal to avert the fiscal cliff with a formal plan of their own, according to Rep. Tom Cole, R-Okla., the deputy majority whip in the House of Representatives.

"I don't think we need to put a formal proposal out on the table," Cole said on the "This Week" roundtable Sunday. "The Speaker has already said that revenue is on the table. We have an idea of how to get there in terms of not raising rates but finding another way through the tax code and reform."

"Beyond that we'll see how negotiations go," added Cole, who broke ranks with his party last week by calling for immediately extending middle class tax cuts scheduled to expire at the end of the year.

(More from Sunday's show HERE)

Former Romney campaign senior adviser Dan Senor disagreed with Cole, saying that Republicans do need to present a formal proposal on avoiding the fiscal cliff.

"I do think Republican leadership at some point here needs to put forth publicly its plan," Senor said.

Cole called the White House proposal, which was presented by Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner to Congressional leaders last week, more of a "Christmas wish list" than a serious plan.

(Read a transcript of George's interview with Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner HERE.)

"I'd like to thank the President and Tim Geithner for reuniting and re-energizing the Republican Caucus," Cole said. "That offer, they must think John Boehner is Santa Claus because that's a Christmas wish list not a real proposal."

The proposal, which reportedly included $1.6 trillion in tax revenue, entitlement savings to be worked out next year, an end to debt ceiling votes, and stimulus spending, was soundly rejected by Republican legislators.

Geithner said earlier on 'This Week' that the ball is in now the court of Congressional Republicans.

Cole reiterated his willingness to work with Democrats on that issue - at least initially - in an effort to "strengthen" the Republicans' negotiating position on the remaining tax cuts.

"I actually do believe that we should take things where we do agree with the president, and we do agree on this, and take things off the table one at a time. And this would, actually I think, strengthen our position in the course of negotiations," Cole said.

Extending tax cuts for 98 percent of Americans is a "victory not a loss," he added later.

Senor said that Republicans don't want to see the country go over the fiscal cliff, but President Obama's proposal may only serve to "poison the environment" in his second term, not lead the way to a deal on the fiscal cliff.

"I do think the President has gone way too far out to the left," Senor said.

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The 15 most overpriced gadgets of all time

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There?s nothing wrong with charging a lot of money for your gadget.?Some of the best things in life are the exact opposite of free; a truly superior product is definitely worth spending more.?Unfortunately, sometimes tech companies think too much of their wares and too little of your intelligence. The result is a product whose price is out of whack with its real value in the marketplace.

Here are 15 truly outrageous offenders, the most overpriced gadgets?of all?time:

Microsoft Surface with Windows RT ($629 with Touch Cover)

At its $499 base price, Microsoft?s first tablet costs the same as the fourth-generation iPad, the well-established leader in the tablet market. The attractive Surface has a screen that's worse than?the iPad's, it lasts 5 hours less on a charge, and at launch time, had only a handful of decent apps for its nascent Windows RT operating system.

How would you like a brand new convertible with a one-of-a-kind retractable roof for the reasonable price?of $22,000? There?s just one catch. You must pay an extra $10,000 for the convertible roof you saw highlighted in all the commercials.

However, you may want the Surface because of its heavily-advertised Touch Cover keyboard, a must-have accessory that will set you back an extra $119, even though it costs Microsoft only $16 to manufacture. That?s $629 for a new, unproven tablet that trails the $499 market leader in most ways.

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Voodoo Envy 133 ($2,099 - $3,299)

One of the most anticipated products of 2008, the 0.7-inch thin Envy 133 notebook was supposed to inspire its name in all of your friends. But at a starting price of over $2,099 that jumped up to $3,300 when fully configured, this 3.4-pound notebook was far too light on performance and specs to justify its heavy price.

The high-end Envy 133 configuration featured a modest 1.8-GHz Intel Core 2 Duo CPU, just 2GB of RAM, and 64GB of internal Flash storage that copied files so slowly it was more of a Solid State Park than a Solid State Drive. Worse still, the notebook lasted just 2 hours and 32 minutes on a charge, making this ultra-portable not very portable at all.

MORE: ?Top 10 Ultrabooks

Cisco umi ($599 Plus $24.99 a month)

Psst. Come over here. I have a copy of this week?s "Village Voice"?newspaper that I?d like to sell you for just $25. What? ?It?s free,? you say? Well, my version has slightly sharper print so I?m sure you and millions of others will be more than willing to pay my premium.

Cisco applied this perverse logic to its 2010-era umi home telepresence system, which cost an eye-popping $599 for equipment plus $24.99 a month to provide a slightly better video chat?service than competitors like Skype and Google offered for free. With the umi, which was short for You / Me, you could hook up a camera to the top of your TV and either talk to one of the five other umi users--or with your friends on Google Talk who were paying nothing at all.

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Sony VAIO P series ($899)

Back in 2009, netbooks were as hot as the Jonas Brothers, and everyone wanted to get in on the action. On the low end, non-computer companies like Sylvania (yes, the light bulb people) were making their own versions of netbook. On the high end, Sony tried to reinvent the genre with its 1.4-pound, 8-inch VAIO P.

At first glance, the VAIO P was an engineering marvel. The system was thin and narrow enough to fit into an overcoat pocket while providing premium features like a bright 1600 x 768 pixel display and 3G connectivity. However, with super-sluggish performance, mediocre battery life and a stiff keyboard, the notebook?wasn?t good enough for extended use. At $899 and up, the value just wasn?t there when the best premium netbooks at the time cost $499.

MORE:??Longest Lasting Laptops

Apple Lisa ($10,000)

In the early 1980s, few people had seen a computer?with a graphical user interface. Xerox had been experimenting with GUIs since the 1970s and launched its Xerox Star 8010 in 1981, but it was Apple?s Lisa that finally brought windowed operating systems to the mainstream in early 1983.

Unfortunately, for the privilege of rolling a mouse around Lisa?s 12-inch, 720 x 360 black-and-white screen, you had to pay a cool $10,000 ($22,000 in 2011 dollars) and put up with a pair of unreliable ?Twiggy? floppy drives that used their own proprietary 860K disks. At the same time, you could buy a brand new Apple IIe, the leading home computer, for just $1,395, a Compaq Portable PC for $3,590 or an original PC for far less.

MORE:??7 Things Apple Must Do to Get Its Swagger Back

Nokia Booklet 3G ($1,720 over two years)

Subsidized netbooks with two-year 3G contracts were always a bad idea, but never more so than with the 2010 Nokia Booklet 3G. For $299 and a commitment to give AT&T $60 a month for two years ($1,720), unsuspecting shoppers got an attractive but incredibly incapable 10-inch netbook.

Perhaps Nokia and AT&T thought the Booklet?s Macbook-esque aluminum chassis would distract consumers long enough that they would make it through the return period without noticing the system?s glacial 4,200-rpm hard drive, painfully slow Atom Z530 processor or cramped keyboard.

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DIVX ($499 plus $4.50 per disc)

How would you like to pay $500 just for the right to pay another $4.50 every time you want to rent a movie? That was the premise behind DIVX, a late-1990s movie rental system designed by someone who had watched too many episodes of Mission Impossible and loved the idea of self-destructing media.

After buying a $500 DIVX Player, you could then purchase any of about 400 movies on disc for about $4.50. A mere 48 hours after you watched the film, it would expire and you would have to throw away the disc or pay another $3.25 for another 48 hours. Circuit City, the leading seller of DIVX players and discs, touted the new technology??as a convenience that would help you avoid late fees. However, the player was $100 more than a regular DVD player and the discs were more expensive than renting a film at the store.

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BlackBerry PlayBook ($499)

Research in Motion Co-CEOs Mike Lazaridis and Jim Balsillie must have been eating some psychotropic Blackberries when they laid out the MSRP for the company?s first tablet in spring 2011. At $499???the same price as the industry-leading iPad 2???the BlackBerry PlayBook provided a significantly smaller screen and an operating system so half-baked that it didn?t even include native email support at launch.

Within a few months, the price of the PlayBook had dropped dramatically. Today, you can get one for just under $180, which is still too expensive. Much-better 7-inch Android devices like the Nexus 7 and Amazon Kindle Fire cost around the same price and have a far better selection of apps.

MORE:??Essential Tablet Accessories

Motorola Laptop Dock ($499)

A dual-core smartphone is already more powerful than an older PC, so why not use it as one? That was Motorola?s thinking when the company launched the Laptop Dock, a keyboard/screen combo that turned the Atrix 4G handset into a notebook running the browser-centric Webtop OS.

At $499 by itself, or $300 when bought together with the Atrix, the 11.6-inch Laptop Dock cost the same or more than a full-fledged Windows 7 netbook that could run all of your software. Considering that its cramped keyboard was worse than those on most netbooks, Motorola?s dock was one of the biggest rip-offs of 2011.

MORE:?10 Hottest Holiday Smartphones

AT&T VideoPhone 2500 ($1,599)

Today, anyone can conduct an online video chat for free, using Skype, Google Talk, FaceTime or any of a dozen other solutions. But back in 1992, we didn?t have broadband Internet or HD webcams. So when AT&T released the VideoPhone 2500, a standard landline handset which could send and receive video, the world took notice . . . of its whopping $1,599 price.

Considering that it both sent and received video on a sluggish 19.2bps modem, the VideoPhone 2500?s 10 frame-per-second performance was pretty impressive for the time. However, to use the device, you needed your friends and family needed to buy it too, something few consumers were willing to do.

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Apple Macintosh G4 Cube ($1,799)

How much extra would you pay for sexy? If you were a Mac maven in 2000, Steve Jobs thought you would spend $1,799 for the PowerMac G4 Cube, a tiny cube-shaped version of Apple?s PowerMac G4 desktop. Unfortunately, at that price, the Cube was a square peg trying to fit into the round hole of Apple?s product line.

At the time, consumers could pay $1,000 less and get an iMac,?which came with a monitor included. Creative professionals who had the money to spend preferred to buy a PowerMac G4 tower with better performance and the ability to upgrade.

MORE:??Alive and Booting: 8 Reasons The PC Still Matters

Motorola Xoom ($1,079 over two years)

When they released the first true Android slate in early 2011, Google and Motorola were a year late to the party and yet they wanted hundreds of dollars more than Apple?s belle of the ball. At a time when the iPad 2 cost $499 with Wi-Fi or $629 with contract-free 3G service, the Motorola Xoom launched at $599 and required you to sign a two-year contract with Verizon at a minimum of $20 per month ($1,079) or $799 sans contract. While the cheaper iPad 2 had access to thousands of apps, at launch, the Xoom had a measly 46 tablet-optimized apps.

MORE:??Top 10 Tablets to Buy or Avoid Now

IBM PCJr ($669 to $1,269)?

A stripped-down chip off the old block, 1983?s IBM PCJr (PC Junior) would have been overpriced at any cost. At $1,269 with the absolutely necessary floppy drive ($669 without), the PC Jr. was quite a bit cheaper than full fledged IBM PCs of the time, but about on-par with the Apple IIe and far more expensive than home-computing competitors like the $200 Commodore 64 and $150 TI-99/4A.

Unfortunately, with its horribly?stiff chiclet keyboard, slow performance, and a slew of compatibility issues that kept it from running popular PC programs, the Jr wasn?t worth the premium. That year, I arrived at?camp earlier than the other kids, just so I could grab a seat in front of a real PC rather than this awful offspring.

MORE:??Essential Tips for Gifting a Tablet

OQO Model 01 ($1,899)

In launching the world?s first 14-ounce Windows PC, OQO?s 2004 Model 01 was a true trailblazer. However, even by early 21st-century standards, the lilliputian laptop?s 1-GHz Transmeta CPU, 20GB hard drive and?256MB of RAM provided sluggish performance. Meanwhile, the tiny keyboard just felt awkward.

Considering that you could get a fully?functioning laptop for hundreds of dollars less, it was hard for most consumers and business users to imagine buying this severely neutered novelty for such a high price.

MORE:??The 12 Best Gadgets You Didn't Buy

Newton MessagePad 2100 ($1,000)

By 1997, Apple had improved the software and solved a lot of the handwriting recognition problems on its Newton PDA. Perhaps because of these improvements, the company felt it could price its grayscale handheld at a whopping $1,000, more than some PCs cost.

At the same time, the PalmPilot Personal cost just $299. Yes, the Newton had a better processor, more ?storage?and a larger screen, but none of these features justified spending $700 more, even during the Internet bubble.

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Saturday, 1 December 2012

Bid target Sportingbet says confident on year earnings

LONDON (Reuters) - Takeover target Sportingbet said it returned to normal trading in November after a quiet spell in the sporting calendar in its main Australian market depressed margins.

Sportingbet's market-leading position in telephone and online gaming in Australia has attracted a 530 million pound ($849 million) takeover bid from Britain's largest bookmaker, William Hill.

Total revenue for the first quarter to end-October was 35 percent lower than in the same period of 2011, Sportingbet said on Friday. Performance in October had been affected as there were only four weekends of sports fixtures compared to five a year earlier.

Australian takings rebounded in November, when Sportingbet's largest annual betting event, the Melbourne Cup, and the Australian Derby Day fell in the same month, pushing the number of bets placed up 21 percent versus the previous year.

Sportingbet said it remained confident it would meet expectations for the year to July 2013.

"After challenging trading conditions during the first quarter, I am pleased to report that November has seen a return to normal trading levels, with a particularly strong Australian sports margin," said Chief Executive Andrew McIver.

The Sportingbet board has given provisional backing to a cash and share approach from William Hill and smaller partner GVC Holdings valuing Sportingbet at 61.1p per share.

Shares in Sportingbet slipped 1.63 percent to 45.25 pence after the statement was released.

The latest deadline for a formal offer is next Tuesday although this can be extended.

William Hill is mainly interested in the Australian operations, while GVC would take on the business in countries where regulations are less clear-cut.

It is not clear who would take on operations in sports-made Spain where amounts wagered fell 57 percent in local currency after regulatory changes. New licences issued in Spain this year have increased competition for gaming businesses.

(Reporting By Isla Binnie; editing by Keith Weir)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/bid-target-sportingbet-says-confident-earnings-090036860--finance.html

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Drunk Pics, Hot Sisters, and Long-Distance Dumping | The Hairpin

1. Here's my situation. I'm a successful, attractive 30-year-old woman who has recently (like just signed papers recently) gotten out of a painful albeit short marriage (together three years, married for one and a half). My marriage was neglectful for some time, and it took therapy and a lot of work to realize the problem wasn't me, and I feel like I have been handling things pretty well.

I had been lonely and emotionally unfulfilled in my marriage for a while. I rushed the engagement probably to hold on to someone who wasn't that into me. I feel like I have been grieving for a long time. I left because I wanted the RIGHT relationship, because mine was so screwed up and one-sided. And now I realize that marriage isn't the end-all I fantasized about, but I do want a partner and eventually a family.?

When I finally moved out, I started a profile on a dating site because I was utterly depressed and wanted to look at pictures of cute boys to help me get over my loss. Since it was my first foray into those sites, I didn't realize I would be bombarded with people who were basically just DTF... but there was one guy that struck up a convo about non-dating, non-relationshippy things and we had a nice back and forth message chain for a while. Then we started texting, and then finally, he asked me to hang out with a group of friends.?

I managed expectations and was afraid the verbal chemistry wouldn't be there, or that he would be less cute in real life. Neither of these things were the case and we ended up hanging out later that night and just BOOM SLEPT TOGETHER. Spent the next day together too. We get along well, have a lot of things in common, and crack each other up.

In the meantime, I am getting side-eye from friends and my mother about me even talking to dudes, and lots of WAIT FOREVER BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING, so I cannot imagine how things would play out if they knew I was dating someone. Operative word DATING. I have no desire to move in together or otherwise link up in a major life commitment way right now, but I want to spend time with this person.

We have had the 'taking it slow' talk, but the truth is, I don't really know what that means. I mean, I don't want to hang out every day because I want to attend to myself and enjoy life as a single-ish lady but I also would really love some companionship and affection from a man, especially one I like. I understand the people around me are not just being busybodies, but rather probably just protective of me after all that has transpired ... and don't want me with The Wrong Dude.?

Anyway, I need to find the balance. He's patient, which is great, and has a life of his own, but we're in the talking-all-the-time mode and I don't want to just stop! Plus we hit it off in bed, so halting all further carnal activities is not something I want. How can I be careful with my heart/boundaries while still enjoying the company of someone I like? HALP.

A very similar situation just happened with a close friend of mine who is a dude. In fact it's so similar I hope you're not his ex wife who I'm obliged to detest. You're probably not! So I'll tell you what I told him.

You can't fight a vibe. I mean, you can, I suppose, but taking things slowly when the vibe is right is like trying to speed things up when you don't hit it off. It's unrealistic and not possible unless one or both of you are unbalanced weirdos. On the other hand, we can experience VERY INTENSE vibes when they are NOT HEALTHY at all. Hitting it off with someone can have as much to do with the relief they give from old, bad feelings as it can with him being the right dude. Your friends and family seem to think you are not ready to tell the difference.?

Which is what I asked my friend a few weeks ago. If, when you sit quietly with yourself and close your eyes and think about this new guy, what really comes up? If your heart feels truly free and at ease about this new relationship, then go for it. Really. I am only saying this because you said you went through a lot of therapy and worked on yourself, so I'm taking your word for it on that. Only you know if you are really ready. Just don't take for granted that you are simply because you want to be. Really listen to your gut.

It's important that you listen closely, because like I said before, you can't control the pace or depth of this new entanglement. So rather than worry about that, just be sure you're ready to ride this thing out no matter where it goes.

2. I organized a camping trip for my birthday. My friends drove long distances, the lovely (older) man who I'm dating came out ? and dropped some CASH on snacks and booze ? and we had delicious dinner and swam and everyone was having a grand time. There was music. There was a birthday cake. Really lovely, magical times. Until I got drunk. And then I was falling over. And then I was the butt of all of the jokes, rightfully, and then I went to bed. And in the morning, I was not hungover, but I did feel that kind of shame-clench that was exacerbated when the lovely older man pulled out his phone and showed a picture to everyone of me on the ground being drunk. And all of my friends laughed and laughed, and I was kind of like "ha-ha" ... poker face.

I am emerging from several years of bad-drunk tendencies. I have a therapist, we talk about depression and anxiety and booze and sex. I haven't been drinking so much for a few months, and then, this weekend, something kind of flipped and I boarded the bus to Dark, Baby Land without even knowing that that was what I was doing. But I can process this stuff with my therapist. The part that's really fucking me up is the dude. We haven't talked much about our previous lives and loves. I've not wanted to because I think it's more ... fair? ... to take someone on their current terms, but now I find myself in this gross spot where I backslid, and I don't know how much I need or want to explain.

He was affectionate on the way home. We talked on the phone after I dropped him off. We have plans this week. I apologized to him via e-mail for being such a weirdo on the night when he met all of my friends for the first time, and thanked him for being so generous. But, I don't know what to do next, with him or with myself. I showed him my worst when he was really showing me his best. And yet ...

What's up with showing off that picture? What's up with taking it? He's 20 years my senior, and I'm in my 30s, and that was totally rude, right? Or, am I so affronted because I'm sensitive about drinking and outside commentary on the way I drank because DUDE, I'M WORKING ON IT!!!? I can't tell how much import to put on all of this. I can't tell how ashamed of myself to be. I can't tell how much of an asshole he was being.

This is what we call a red flag. And it's the exact kind of red flag that most of us ignore in order to keep dating the "lovely" person we are dating.

Not all red flags are the same, in that some are across-the-board red flags and some are personally subjective red flags. Across-the-board red flags are things like violence, straight up verbal abuse, and thinking Malcolm Gladwell is a genius. You know, obvious monster shit.

Your red flag is personal to you. It is one simply because you feel it is one. What your guy did, in my opinion, is possibly quite funny and fine. But he didn't do it to me with my friends. He did it to you with yours, and it really bothers you. So it IS fucked up. To you. You need to say that to him. If he says, "Oh my God I'm so sorry I had no idea drinking and falling down wasn't hilarious to you, I feel terrible, let's discuss your past a little so we can get to know each other better bit by bit until we are in love" then maybe the flag is an opportunity to repair and become closer through mutual understanding.

But if he's like, "Whoa! C'mon, that's what phones are for, drunky!" Then he's not necessarily wrong, but probably wrong for you.

Also, he's 50 something and still taking drunk pics and laughing about them? Either he's super cool and comfortable with himself, or he's completely terrible. Either way, good luck!

3. Help! This just happened. Is it ever appropriate for a guy to mention that he finds his girlfriend's sister attractive when in conversation with both ladies? (Some logistics: I'm 24, my boyfriend is 24, my little sis is 20.)?My initial instinct was that some unwritten rule of dating had been violated, but maybe I'm being a little irrationally insecure ? she's definitely "the cute one" of the siblings, and knows how to work it, so I'm increasingly threatened by her in romantic territory. (I guess that makes me "the neurotic one.") The bf is somewhat aware of this sensitivity.?

My thoughts: Clearly he's into me, because he's dating me, and of course he's going to discreetly check out my sister because that's what guys do, but I never want to hear about how he's kinda into her as well, even jokingly over drinks. ... Too much?

PS: Haven't confronted BF about this yet, because I can't decided if this response is on-target or wildly out of line with your typical sane and self-assured lady.

Of course it's inappropriate for your boyfriend to comment on your sister. Also, of course he did it in the first place because he's 24. Aaand of course you should say something to him. Most 24-year-old guys have a lot of growing up to do before they can sustain a healthy relationship. You telling him how insensitive it was to do that is pretty much the only way he's going to learn it. I do not envy the heavy lifting required in dating dudes in their 20s, because there are so many battles to fight if you want them to become men. You should do the grooming in good faith that if you stay together, he may one day be a charming and thoughtful, mature partner for you. And if you break up down the line, you've still contributed to improving the dude pool for other ladies. Hopefully, there's a guy out there getting reprimanded for staring at the wrong butt right now, and when you meet him in five years, you won't have to tell him to keep his eyes off your sister.

?4. So, I'm in a three-year-long relationship, and, unfortunately, the time has come to end it. We've been long-distance for a while and will be long-distance for a while more, and I just can?t do it anymore. I?m exhausted. I haven't gotten enough from him emotionally/commitment-wise to make it feel worth it, and I feel taken for granted. Nothing is seriously wrong, but nothing is seriously right, and I just can't hack it anymore. I'm very broken up about it, but I guess that's just the way the cookie crumbles, right?

Anyway, my problem is this: When do I break up with him? He's coming to visit soon, and we haven't seen each other in quite some time; we've been very excited about the visit, and now I feel like a total ass. Do I break up with him before the visit and feel terrible he spent $500 for nothing? Do I wait and hope that everything resolves itself during the visit? And if it doesn?t, do I just pretend everything's okay and then at the airport be like "ummmm so I think we should see other people, this week has been great, k bye?" I know there's no good way to break up with someone, but all of these ways seem particularly messy.?

Ask a Dude, it really hurts me to have to end this relationship; my guy hasn't been the perfect boyfriend, but he's been pretty darn good, and I want this to be as painless for all parties involved as possible. I love him very much and I know he loves me, and this whole thing is just one sucky mess of irreconcilable differences. Blergh. Help!

End it now. I was in a similar thing many years ago, and I let the lady travel across the country for an already scheduled visit because I thought she should hear it in person. She ended up leaving four hours after getting there ? leaving on a train to the airport in the pouring rain and crying so hard I thought she was going to barf. I remember how sad she was about the break up in general, but I REALLY remember how mad she was that I let her travel all that way just to break her heart in person.

Breaking up with this guy over the phone does not make you a bad person, and doing it in person does not make it not a break up. Save him the time, the travel, and maybe some of the money.

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Source: http://thehairpin.com/2012/11/drunk-pics-hot-sisters-and-long-distance-dumping

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Red algae bloom closes Sydney's beaches, but probably not for long

Bloody waters before summer has even started may sound like a drag on tourism, but it's a mere drop in the sea for Australia.

By Helen Clark,?Contributor / November 28, 2012

A couple of young surfers play with a small wave during a morning surf at Coogee beach in Sydney, Australia, in October. A red algae bloom has closed 10 beaches so far in and around Sydney and up the more northerly Central Coast in Australia during the past 24 hours.

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Don?t worry. It?s not blood. It?s not even poisonous, just an irritant to skin and eyes and to anyone hoping for a swim now that summer?s finally about to hit Sydney.

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A red algae bloom has closed 10 beaches so far in and around Sydney and up the more northerly Central Coast in Australia during the past 24 hours.?And more beach closures could be on the way, say officials. But aside from some startlingly other-world pictures, it's not likely to scare away the tourists.

The "crimson tide," or an algal bloom that has variously been compared to shark attacks or oily tomato sauce in the Aussie media, washed up on Sydney shores earlier this week, temporarily closing famed tourist beaches like Bondi. But it doesn't seem like too many around here are worried.

Turns out the blood-colored algal bloom isn?t a result of pollution, but rather an upswelling of nutrient-rich waters that the buoyant algae can feed off. Two different blooms have apparently come from the same source and essentially floated to Sydney?s shores. Their ammonia-rich diet can cause skin and eye irritations but little else problematic, according to experts.?

"This bloom has likely occurred as a result of the upwelling of nutrient-rich deep ocean water on to the continental shelf," the Metropolitan Sydney, South Coast, and Hunter Regional Algal Coordinating Committees told media Tuesday.?They said tests had identified the algae as noctiluca scintillans or "Sea Sparkle" (for its phosphorescence) and pointed out that?most algal blooms last around a week.?

Despite the closure of Sydney?s favorite beaches on the cusp of a hot summer ? and a possible heat wave of a weekend, with temperatures predicted to pass 100 Fahrenheit ? it?s doubtful this red tide will cause any longstanding problems either for locals or the tourism industry. And in the meantime, not all of Sydney's beaches are closed, and there are plenty of hotels with swimming pools.

And anyway, Australia has faced much worse in the water: Real blood in the water with the odd shark attacks, or stings from one of the many species of?box jellyfish?like the Chironex fleckeri, the world?s most venomous animal. The sting from this particular jellyfish can cause death in minutes, according to Australian jellyfish experts.

It will take much more to keep people from hitting Sydney's beaches.

Source: http://rss.csmonitor.com/~r/csmonitor/globalnews/~3/fHQYa2kckUk/Red-algae-bloom-closes-Sydney-s-beaches-but-probably-not-for-long

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